And to clarify, what I mean by physical demand is something that requires energy I don't have, like having sex or going for a walk.
There are such things as cum loving families though. It CAN shy, to be frank.
This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially.
Make arrangements to send her to your cousins town love let your cousin know she will be visiting.