He completely flipped the switch. I have feeling you stopped pursuing anyone unlikely to go for you.
There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness. Shiraishi the first shiraishi in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in gioia biel relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage.
When misato doesn't have his patience he has his family who seem more and misato to have self inflicted issues they gamble, drink and smoke which lead to health issues and bills.