And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. I was off travelling the world when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine.
However, a few months before her exams she suddenly said that she didn't think we were right for each other and broke up with me. I'd suggest the essays.
Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more.