You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. I keep the positive thought that it will get better.
They are grown now and serving their country but luckily they still need Mom and Dad sometimes!.
If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life.