I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. Also thank God that when he starts his real podiatry job next year he will have steady hours.
Being married to a doctor is no walk in the park. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did.